Age never seemed to be a scary thing. People who ran around bemoaning 'yet another birthday' always conjured up sad images of Cathy cartoons or uninspired Hallmark cards.
(And I always wanted to say 'well, its better than being dead')
Me, age 25
Then it was me getting older.
I mean, not to Cathy out on anyone, but moving out of your twenties is tougher than expected. Especially when your career is tenuous at best. I don't know if young anyone else did this too, but young me set up these ridiculous 'milestones' I was supposed to hit by certain ages.
Young me didn't know shit about shit.
I got married way earlier than anticipated, and exited my music career about 40 years too early... And I seem to be lagging on getting a house, having kids, and figuring out what I want to be when I grow up. And oh yeah.. I was supposed to be either a multi-millionaire or dictator of the world by now. Sheesh... I have a lot of hypothetical catching up to do.
Thankfully, late 20s me has enough perspective to understand that these milestones are total bullshit. There are no regrets on the experiences that I've had- and not feeling the 'need' to acquire, or reproduce, or force myself into a boring or uncomfortable or overstretched way of existing takes some stress out of the daily grind. Late 20s me understands the meaning of 'trade offs'- and does not worry about having a smaller savings account because I've chosen to travel the world or live in a pretty apartment. Late 20s me understands that everyone has their own path, and making comparisons between people's paths drives a competitive person bonkers. Late 20s me gets to say 'Jeez Sara, stop it!' And the best thing about late 20s me is that I do stop it! I don't fight back! I might actually for once listen to my own common sense.
And that makes me happy about being 29. I'm gonna get wrinkles.
Cathy can suck it.